Education and safety note. This page is for general information. It cannot diagnose you, assess your individual risk, or replace care from a qualified professional. If you are in immediate danger, may harm yourself or someone else, cannot stay safe, or have symptoms that may be medically urgent, contact local emergency services or crisis support. In Ireland, call 112 or 999 or go to the nearest emergency department; you can also read the HSE crisis guidance. Medication decisions need to be discussed with a qualified prescriber.
Introduction
When anxiety is severe, it can put ordinary life out of reach. You are left with panic and a sense of dread that does not let up; you may find yourself unable to sleep, agitated, crying, or preoccupied with intrusive thoughts and the fear of losing control. There is the physical toll as well as the need to check things over and over or simply put off what needs to be done.
The task is to acknowledge the weight of all that without making this page stand in for a crisis intervention. Severe anxiety is something that calls for help, and at times an urgent one if there are questions around safety, medical symptoms, reality testing or substance use.
What You May Be Looking For
Some things you will recognise in the patterns of severe anxiety:
- An inability to eat or sleep as you should.
- Putting off work, study or socialising altogether.
- Asking for reassurance time and again and not getting any.
- Worry about being unable to cope or causing harm to yourself.
Frame these as examples, not as a diagnosis. People often come to these pages with shame, thinking they are the only ones with the problem. Use words like "may" or "for some people" to put them at ease without telling them who they are.
What Can Keep It Going
Readers will know they feel bad but may not see the loop. High arousal makes your thinking narrow and your predictions of threat seem unassailable. Avoidance can turn into a compulsion. Shame keeps you from saying how bad it is to others. Or you might use substances to take the edge off, only to make it worse later.
- If it is safe, confide in someone you trust.
- When the anxiety is persistent and getting in the way of your life, contact your GP or a therapist.
- For the next step, make sure it is a safe one.
- Do not tinker with your medication without a word to your prescriber.
And if there is an immediate danger, or issues of intoxication, withdrawal, psychosis or severe medical symptoms, then use the urgent services available.
The Role of Psychotherapy
Once the pressing medical and safety matters are out of the way, therapy can be useful for dealing with panic, worry and the stresses in your relationships. It can slow the pattern down so you are able to observe it and perhaps do something different. This might mean addressing body sensations, self-criticism, trauma, avoidance or values.
As for the research by Jonathan Haverkampf, we present it for those interested in his communication background, but clinical claims will rest on the independent guidelines and peer-reviewed sources.
When to Seek More Urgent, Medical or Specialist Help
- This page must include clear crisis routing for Ireland and a note that it cannot assess individual risk.
If a reader is in immediate danger, cannot stay safe, may harm themselves or someone else, or has symptoms that could be medically urgent, they should contact local emergency services or crisis support. In Ireland, emergency help is available through 112 or 999, or the nearest emergency department. For medication questions, medication decisions need to be discussed with a qualified prescriber.
FAQ
Is this page enough to tell me what I have?
No, not by itself. While it is a useful way to orient yourself and understand the terminology, this page cannot diagnose you or assess your personal risk. For that you need a qualified professional who can look at the whole situation – from your medical history and any medication or substance use to stress levels, your culture, relationships and present safety.
Is therapy an option?
It can be, particularly if you are finding the pattern hard to understand, or if it is distressing, getting in the way of your day-to-day life or straining your relationships. You will get the most out of it if it is a collaborative process where you feel free to ask questions of your therapist about their methods and what the boundaries and goals are.
I am embarrassed to ask for help.
That is understandable. It is understandable to feel that way and many people delay seeking help because they think they should be able to manage it alone. A careful page should make the idea of seeking help seem unexceptional, not a sign of weakness. There is no need to disclose everything immediately; making an appointment or making a simple enquiry is a reasonable place to start.
Related Pages
- Anxiety therapy in Dublin and online
- OCD therapy in Dublin and online
- Trauma therapy in Dublin and online
- Counselling for couples
- Anxiety resources in Ireland
- Mental health help pathways
- Psychotherapy and counselling in Dublin and online
Sources and review. Published or updated in May 2026. This page is educational and uses public-health, guideline, peer-reviewed, or professional sources where clinical claims are made.
